Our worst nightmare, when our children choose to keep things from us. When they are young and growing, we wish that they don't get wrong information from wrong sources. When they are grown ups, we hope that they know, their parents are always there. They trust us and reach out to us whenever they feel the need. My letter to my growing son.......
You are in that age where kids tease you for telling each and everything to your parents ..
When we discussed this I tried to explain the reason why you still need to share everything with your parents...
You are in growing age... there are many things, you all don't know about
Like I told you ... which programs to watch? Which books to read?? Which type of language to speak??? And much more.. which we can suggest when time comes
To avoid abusive language.. to avoid some people and to avoid some places..You need experience..You lack proper knowledge too
Friends are also young like you..they may not know many things...
For that reason you should make your parents your friends too.............You need your friends but you need our help too
AND I promise ... we will not let you down .. and will be your best friends
Its not about preaching or lecturing or finding faults.....Its about helping where we know some things due to our age and experience
Its about growing together and learning together.. where we also may not know some things but you will have advantage of our honesty with you and our experience of life, which is there for you only
Trust us ...make friends with us... share everything good or bad with us ...
And one more thing .... not everyone has friends in their parents ...so don't shy away from teasing of the friends
remember ....................we are there for you son
And for humour........See we will always tell you the correct thing |
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